September 11, 2006
Today, it?s sweet and sour day.

Every Sept 10 and 11, I get very anxious and pray a lot. We don?t do
flags (forget to put it up), but we do a lot of praying. Can?t believe
it?s been 5 years. Back then I was single, engaged and terrified; Now I?m
happily married, mother to 2 beautiful girls, which help me keep life
in perspective.

I remember being at work and seing almost all the live morning footage.
I was working at a high level govt office and we had access to a TV with
cable on the office next door. I remember everyone trying to fit into a
large cubicle, with lots of crying and screaming. (We hispanics are well
known for being quite expressive with our emotions, especially grief)
One of my coworkers lost her brother that day, and another believed she lost
her sister and aunt-- lucky for them, they had medical appointments
that morning.

DH was my fiance then and he was visiting some relatives in Chile (BIL
works for a Very Large Multinational Corp). DH was suppossed
to travel on Sept 11 from Santiago, Chile to Miami, and Miami to PR. Of
course, his flight got cancelled and he got stuck at his brother?s house. We
got married on Oct 13, 2001 and were terrified to fly. Spent our honeymoon
in Canada, and then in Seattle. I still get nauseous when I fly.

Since Karla is only 3, I have avoided explaining what this day means. I
try to shield Karla from 9-11 images, she?ll see plenty when she is older.
Karla only knows that we have to be checked and rechecked at airports
because some people behaved badly during their flight.

Today is my 36th birthday, so I actually have something to celebrate.
A positive note is everyone remembers my bday. Nowadays, I get more calls
than ever.
HAPPY BDAY to all the Sept 11 babies! May you always have
something good to celebrate on this day (besides remembering all the sad
events that happened).

I?m off to call a restaurant, order takeout, pick it up on the way
home and celebrate life with my family. (And then hug DH and my girls).

Joselyn

Back to School-- Karla's lunches and snacks
Mood:  chatty
Topic: Motherhood
Karla has a lunchbox w/ 2 separate compartments (from Lillian Vernon). Some of her favorite snacks are yogurt, fruit cups (we like Mott's applesauce and other fruits), juice/milk boxes, cereal, pieces of fruit (dry or fresh). Sometimes, I put a sandwich or a cookie in a Ziplock bag. For lunch we pack frozen leftovers (I always save a few pieces of previous dinners) or a Chef Boyardi reheatable pasta cup. We try to pack in as much nutritional stuff as possible, but every once in a while we use prepared foods.

Father's Day 2006
Father's Day 2006

We had lunch with my parents & brothers, and with Pierre's parents &
relatives. We met at a Casa Dante restaurant. Karla had a blast playing
with her cousins. Everyone was carrying and cuddling Letty so I got to eat
relax. :)

The girls and I got home early as we're still sick with some type of strong
seasonal allergy (asthma). Karla was soo tired she was sound asleep by
6:00pm. I was asleep by 7pm. Baby Letty stayed up playing with DH until
around 8-8:30 pm.

Anyone in the Ocala, Orlando, Gainesville, FL Area?- why considering move (long)
Here is why we are considering the move and why FL.

PR is a lovely caribbean island with nice tropical climate. We are a US possession and have US citizenship by law. PR is also an expen$ive place to live as residential properties are very expen$$ive (especially in the metro area) and public education is disastrous. So, we are 2 woking parents with a mortgage paying private school and preschool (which will soon cost more than our mortgage). Of course, San Juan is never as expensive as NY or DC, but it's not too far behind.

Government here is grossly mismanaged. Mostly due to political battles between the prostatehooders and the prostay-as-we-are-but-with-a-few-little-changes. They have bankrupted the govt and are in the midst of doing furloughs and closing several state sevices as part of the budget battle, plus hiking taxes.

Costs of living here are rising. We live in an island, with limited land space (expensive housing). Not only do we pay through the nose to get everything shipped here (literally), but we have huge energy and water costs (no offense to those in CA), we pay very high income taxes, we will be getting more taxes and hikes-- several sales and property taxes, and government services are just lousy and don't work like they should. Gvt here is so awful it's a hassle to get baby Letty's US passport, a real pain in the neck for us who have family living all over the world. We figured that when we go to FL we can go and get her passport issued and sent home to us.

I've lived most of my life in cities (San Juan, DC, Barcelona, etc.) where you can get everything just around the corner and there was a lot of nightlife and restaurants. I've already had my share of nightlife and am now in wife mommy mode (nesting stage), so I don't want to party until the wee hours. Now I'm thankful for whatever sleep time I can get. Besides, if I want city life I can always visit Miami or anywhere else.

We would just love to live in a nice area with good services (not so crowded), a big backyard. Hopefully, the area should have good/excellent public schools and quality of life.

Dear Sis and Dear BIL live in Ocala. They work very hard as veterinarians. Their daily expenses are way lower than mine (their child will be attending private preschool) and their quality of life is way better. Having family and friends nearby would be a huge plus for us. Besides, we could vote for the Prez, something we can't do now even though we are US Citizens.

The only things that bugs me about FL are that you have to drive everywhere, and evacuate in case of an emergency. At least here you can take the metro/subway to move around, although we have nowhere to evacuate in an emergency. I'll also miss having almost everything available, but you can get anything and everything through the internet nowadays. Health services would not be as accessible in central FL as now because I live 20 min by car from some of the best hospitals in the Caribbean, but Shands (Gainsville) and Mayo Clinic are nearby, just not as close.

DH has an accounting degree and an MBA both from universities in PR. I'm pushing him to study for and take the CPA exam. I have a college degree from American U. (in DC) and a law degree from UPR. Hopefully I could pass the FL Bar Exam and practice Immigration Law. Of course, I would have to learn immigration law, but I'm working on taking seminars and talking to other lawyers in the field. There is a huge wave of immigration in FL, so immigration law is a very viable, comfortable option. I'm also offering to help DH expand his food business to FL so a move can be made feasible for us. Of course, this is a move planned for the next few years. (Unless the US gives PR the boot, which would make us run for the airport.)

When we go to visit Dear Sis & family, we plan to scout the area and get to know a few locations. That's why we would love to hear about the different cities/towns so we can make a list of the nearby places to scout.

Thanks for allowing me to vent. I feel so much better already.

Joselyn
Mom to Karla and Ada Leticia "Letty"













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Karla on albuterol (Funny Story)
For the last few weeks, Karla (3 yrs.) has been on albuterol treatments ht ht
Around 4am last night, I had to give Karla a treatment. Needless to say Karla was very active through the night and couldn't sleep (neither could we until almost 6am).

Early this morning 8 month old Ada Letty woke up and was playing happily in her crib, I heard Karla go into the baby's room, and talk to Letty. I really struggled to wake up and get out of bed, worried Karla might unwillingly hurt Letty. By the time I dragged myself across the hallway to Letty's room, Karla cheerfully informed me she had put makeup on Letty's face. Letty was crawling happily in her crib, with lightly tinted lipgloss around her mouth and "rosy stains" on her cheeks.

The lipgloss used was Karla's. I had given Karla a light colored lipgloss, after she took it from my purse and used it. Karla believes she's a makeup artist. Letty is so innocent, carefree and happy-go-lucky she doesn't mind whatever Karla does with her. I kept reminding myself-- this was the medicine acting, not Karla.

Now, sitting at my office I can't help but laugh. Wish I had taken a picture of Letty with her made up face. It seems really funny now (at noon).

Guardian angels are working overtime. Thank you God!

Praying for improved air quality-- no more volcanic ashes nor Sahara Desert Dust


Joselyn
Mom to Karla and Ada Leticia "Letty"













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Karla on albuterol (Funny story)
For the last few weeks, Karla (3 yrs.) has been on albuterol treatments ht ht ht
Around 4am last night, I had to give Karla a treatment. Needless to say Karla was very active through the night and couldn't sleep (neither could we until almost 6am).

Early this morning 8 month old Ada Letty woke up and was playing happily in her crib, I heard Karla go into the baby's room, and talk to Letty. I really struggled to wake up and get out of bed, worried Karla might unwillingly hurt Letty. By the time I dragged myself across the hallway to Letty's room, Karla cheerfully informed me she had put makeup on Letty's face. Letty was crawling happily in her crib, with lightly tinted lipgloss around her mouth and "rosy stains" on her cheeks.

The lipgloss used was Karla's. I had given Karla a light colored lipgloss, after she took it from my purse and used it. Karla believes she's a makeup artist. Letty is so innocent, carefree and happy-go-lucky she doesn't mind whatever Karla does with her. I kept reminding myself-- this was the medicine acting, not Karla.

Now, sitting at my office I can't help but laugh. Wish I had taken a picture of Letty with her made up face. It seems really funny now (at noon).

Guardian angels are working overtime. Thank you God!

Praying for improved air quality-- no more volcanic ashes nor Sahara Desert Dust



Joselyn
Mom to Karla and Ada Leticia "Letty"













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Karla is 3 years old today!
Mood:  celebratory
Topic: Karla
Today is Karla's 3rd birthday. Wow! My baby girl is growing up so fast.

Last Saturday we had a birthday party for Karla at our home. Everything was Strawberry Shortcake, even Karlas' clothes, shoes and pigtails.

We invited some of Karla's schoolmates and our friends' children. We had an inflatable castle and a clown. The clown painted the faces of most children (and adults). The clown painted strawberries on Karla's face. Even baby Letty (7mos) had her face painted with a tiny heart.

Karla had a blast and so did her friends. We had a wonderful time, as we got to see many friends we hadn't seen in years.

Yesterday we went to Agropolis, the local agricultural fair. It was huge. Our little city girl got to see geese, turkeys, horses, cows, bulls and baby calves.

Happiness
Mood:  crushed out
Topic: Spiritual
Happiness is... A real belly laugh My kids's belly laughs DH cooking for me :) or doing some housework :) :) Knowing my family is safe :) Love Sandwiches-- DH and me hugging with the kids in between

Toddler rebelliousness
Mood:  quizzical
Topic: Motherhood
My almost 3 yr has become quite contrary lately. If we say something is x, she says no its y. To her it's a joke. She also wants to boss us around. To us it's puzzling and annoying.

I keep reminding myself of the nursery rhyme "Mary, Mary, quite contrary..."

She's also almost fully weaned, except for an occasional nursing.

My gallbladder is out
Mood:  celebratory
Good news! I no longer have a gallbladder. The operation (laparoscopy) was successful and I'm resting at home. The kids are at school and daycare so I can get well soon.

My pancreatitis is acute and supposedly caused by my gallstones. Stones can still form in the ducts near the pancreas, but it's extremely rare. I'm not a diabetic, so there's no reason to expect pancreatitis from happening again.
I'm so happy. I didn't realize my gallbladder bothered me so much until it was taken out. Yay!